I often look up questions I have about sex on the internet or in books and find this helpful, but can it really improve my sex life?
Yes, especially when lover's read to each other! Many women get turned on by aural sex and most men are aroused by all types of erotica. Reading about sex on the internet can teach you new things, give you new ideas and boost your sex life by getting the juices flowing - literally - as brain chemicals like adrenaline, dopamine and testosterone are released and pack a triple punch generating a sense of pleasure, excitement and euphoria. To add hotness, try some dirty talk, sensual touching, passionate kissing and undressing each other. You might be surprised to discover that reading about sex on the internet can be the sexual event.
Fiction is one of the safest ways of exploring BDSM and your darker sexual desires. Whether it be through reading or writing, it can serve as an outlet for any desires you might have which you aren’t yet confident enough to act out in the real world, or simply as a way to experiment with ideas, kinks, and scenarios.
BDSM fiction has enjoyed a soaring popularity boost in recent years thanks to the success of a particular series of books, and while many people consider the Fifty Shades trilogy to not be indicative of the kink lifestyle, we can’t deny that it has paved the way for more knowledgeable, albeit lesser known authors to get their work noticed.
Such a resurgence had overflowed into online communities. Kinky fiction is now one of the most popular categories on fan submitted erotica sites. However, in true kinkster style, if you want to get to the real filth, you might need to navigate the dark, dimly-lit backstreets of the internet.