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Verbal actions - Giving Orders

Here’s a handful of ideas to get your kinky brain going. Remember, there’s no catch-all strategy and what works well for some won’t work for others. Think about which ones will vibe with your partner’s preferences and be careful not to stray into non-consensual territory. Better safe than sorry!

Create anticipation:

Express possession:

Imply devotion:

Use names or titles:

Make requests and commands:

Threaten them, if they’re into that:

Compliment them, if they’re into that:

Express enthusiasm:

Use porny words rather than clinical ones:

Use adjectives that target how they like to feel:

Comment on the situation at hand:

Focus on the fantasy:

Ask for consent:


Shut them up:

40 Threaten the sub