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Verbal actions - Giving Orders

Here’s a handful of ideas to get your kinky brain going. Remember, there’s no catch-all strategy and what works well for some won’t work for others. Think about which ones will vibe with your partner’s preferences and be careful not to stray into non-consensual territory. Better safe than sorry!


Create anticipation:


Express possession:


Imply devotion:


Use names or titles:


Make requests and commands:


Threaten them, if they’re into that:


Compliment them, if they’re into that:


Express enthusiasm:


Use porny words rather than clinical ones:


Use adjectives that target how they like to feel:


Comment on the situation at hand:


Focus on the fantasy:


Ask for consent:


Beg:


Shut them up:

40 Threaten the sub