One of the main factors, for me in feeling truly Owned is to be constantly reminded throughout the day of Master’s control. These reminders can be subtle or really obtrusive. The more often a slave is reminded of their submission, the deeper it becomes….and the more fulfilling. So here are some ideas you might want to try. And no matter what rules you decide to make on your own, please be consistent. If you’re unwilling to take the time to enforce the rules you make, then there may as well be no rules at all. There is nothing in the world that will make a slave feel less loved than to have a Master/Mistress who ignores their transgressions and does not exert their Dominance.
- Have them wear slave bells. The constant soft jingling of the bells is soothing and a certain reminder of their submission.
- Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have them kneel before you and ask to accompany you upon the furniture.
- Choose their hairstyle and go with them to get it cut to your specifications.
- Whenever possible (i.e. no curious young-uns about), have them display themselves whenever you come into the room…..legs spread, shirt unbuttoned. No matter what position you take, they are to be sure your view is unobstructed.
- When around the kids or vanilla friends/family, make sure they has an alternative title for you besides Master…..such as “my Love” etc.
- Use them sexually in a rough, selfish way when you feel like it, interrupting whatever they were doing.
- Choose a food that they dislike and have them eat a small portion every day for a week.
- Have them crawl to bed each night.